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Sun, 02/19/2012 - 11:52 — jjmom68

I am offended by some of the comments that have been directed towards me on this site. I wish you all luck on your journey of healing but I will not be checking in as regularly as I was because of the offending comments. I took particular offense to one comment that implied that I didn't need to give advice because I wasn't a therapist but rather tell about my experience. I was offended by that comment because the person who posted it didn't look at all the comments shared between the person posting the original comment and I in the past and I was building on those comments. Also, how does that person know that I'm not a therapist? We haven't shared our professional backgrounds that I can remember. Guess it would surprise that sister that I work with mentally handicapped kids that have been abused in their lives every day! I apologize if I offend anyone, but I am truly deeply hurt right now!

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Sun, 02/19/2012 - 12:08 — Sue

I REALLY hope nothing I EVER said offended you. I wish you would reconsider!!!! You have no idea how much you have helped me in such a horrible place I am in and how much you have touched me. You have made a BIG difference in my life!!!!! If it wasn't anything I did or said, then just ignore whoever it was or whatever they said. You know what the truth is and that should be ALL that matters. Whatever you have been through ,it seems like a tool you can use to help others,like me, when we get stuck.when you get stuck,I would like to be able to support you as well. Can't do that if your not here.PLEASE reconsider,PLEASE!!!!!!!!! I wil respect your wishes if you choose not to check in,but ,you will be missed. Everything you have ever said to me,it has really helped me in these very dark days, please always remember that no matter where this goes. Please take care of yourself,Sue

Sun, 02/19/2012 - 15:16 — jjmom68

It was not something that you said!! I am glad to hear that you have been helped by  my communications with you! I was speaking of someone else, and I apologize if you feel that I was referring to you. I do not want to put a name on here, just know that it was not you!! I'm sorry, but now that I've been cut so deeply by the offhanded remark of someone else, this is no longer beneficial to my mental health or my stress level for right now. I will still check in just not as consistently as I had been....

Sun, 02/19/2012 - 15:25 — Sue

Im sorry,I dont want any names,I just wish you weren't so hurt. So many times lately that I have felt so lost, your words have TRUELY touched my heart and helped with the sadness I feel like I have a connection with you. I really hope that your cut heals soon and please know, you are on my mind and in my thoughts and I AM HERE FOR YOU!!!!!! I do respect your wishes though, please don't go away forever or long O.K.??!!!!!, take care, SUE

Tue, 03/13/2012 - 22:44 — jjmom68

I felt myself breaking down a lil bit everyday inside that I was on the site and now I can see how one little comment must have set me over the edge. I probably misunderstood what the author was saying and the message was confused......I apologize. I honestly feel since I'm not on this site everyday several times a day anymore, I'm mentally more stable and am working on myself.....

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Stacey is free. In January 2009, Missouri Governor Matt Blunt commuted her sentence of life without parole. She is currently speaking out about sexual abuse and sharing her message of love, healing and forgiveness.